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Farmer’s Market Flowers

There is something so honest and friendly about a flower stand at a farmer’s market.   You can imagine the lovely green place that they were cut from: all happy rows of blooms turned up to the sun. It reminds me of wandering around my grandmother’s farm, gathering flowers for a surprise bouquet for her.   I could pick anything I wanted, except wildflowers.  She showed me how quickly wildflowers wilted, and so there could be no point or pleasure in picking […]

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White House Receiving Lines and Photo Ops

While a receiving line is usually only seen at a wedding or engagement party, we rarely had an event at the White House without one.   A receiving line consists of the host and hostess – and a guest of honor if there is one – standing at the entrance to the party to greet the guests.   And since the invention of the camera, the receiving line at the White House has taken on Cosmic Significance.  A photo with the President […]

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Cell Phone Etiquette

The word ‘etiquette’ in French means ‘label,’ which is appropriate because nothing labels us like our personal behavior.  Every time a new piece of technology becomes available to the general public, etiquette has to be created to cope with it.  There’s no point in bemoaning technological changes; they’re going to happen no matter what we may think of them, so it’s important to develop practical rules for how to use cellphones and other social media platforms in a way that […]